Two years ago, when I was still a rich undergraduate, I bought my dad on his birthday a Bulova Marine Star chronograph watch around $300. It was a bargain by the way. It quickly became his favorite watch, and he never really wore it unless for a very fancy party.
I went back home for Spring Break and he told me the news. Apparently, while he was vacationing in Vietnam, my uncle (who I think can never really grow up) beg and annoyed him for that watch. Being the big brother-in-law-living-in-the-US, my dad was pressured into giving it to my uncle, and he reluctantly did.
I don’t know if my dad told him that it was a present from me or not, but I think you DON’T ask people for something like that. If there is one trait I hate the most, it is to give up your face for material gain. I never really like that uncle from the beginning. He is petty, greedy, and isn’t really a man in my eyes.
That watch means more to my dad than the expensive brand; It was from me. So now I’m looking around for a new Bulova watch to surprise my dad. While I would never buy something that expensive for myself, but if it’s for someone I love, it’s worth every penny.
Of course, I don’t think my dad would want me to strain my pocket for it. However, the fire has already started. My usual sophresune approach to life is out the window.
Posted by tangerinesweet on April 11, 2009 at 1:10 am
awww…that’s really sweet of you. I agree normally I wouldn’t spend so much for my own stuff, but if it’s for someone meaningful it’s all worth it.
and…that’s…an unbelievable uncle.